What I Meant to Say

Rising from the Depths with Jake Stahl

Episode Summary

This is a clear conversation about rising from the depths of addiction to pain killers after surgery to an elevated life of giving back and second chances.

Episode Notes

For more inspired edutainment, visit: www.bebettermedia.tv

Key Points & Memorable Quotes 

“Self talk is huge, replacing should with could is huge.” 3:12

“Free Will is an illusion.  We’re all conditioned to make decisions.” 4:56

“The moments of clarity that happen, if you’re aware of them, are staggering.” 19:16

“Surround yourself with the right people.” 25:00 

“The loneliness out there is tragic.” - Wendy @ 31:27

“We attract to our level of healing.” - Wendy @ 33:00

“You are the sum total of the five people you hang with.” 34:17

“For every ten minutes you talk or listen, you should encourage an interaction, something that inquires or causes further insight into the conversation.” 36:00

Guest Bio

Jake is a pioneer in conversational dynamics and a highly regarded fractional Chief Learning Officer. He is revolutionizing sales through his ‘Adaptive Conversational Blueprint,’ turning sales professionals into relational architects capable of forging profound connections with prospects. Integral to his approach is the 2/10 Rule, which challenges traditional perspectives on conversation and emphasizes the importance of rhythm and cadence. With a rich background spanning 30 years, Jake has shared his expertise in training and development across six countries, impacting over 10,000 individuals. A doting husband and father of four, Jake seamlessly blends practical experience and insightful wisdom in his pursuit of the perfect conversation.

Show Notes 

0:00 - Welcome to What I Meant to Say with Guest, Jake Stahl

0:34 - One Piece of Advice to Your Younger Self

2:31 - Starting Inner Child Work

4:32 - How Do You Bring Life Lessons into the Corporate World?

8:39 - Take Us Back to the Root of Your Transformation

14:44 - Making the Decision to Change 

19:11 - Moments of Clarity

20:34 - A Discussion on the Loss of Identity 

24:02 - How to Support Someone Struggling with Addiction

28:05 - Holistics Ways to Calm Yourself & Connect

35:23 - What New Book Are You Writing?

39:31 - What is A Fractional Chief Learning Officer?

43:09 - Advice to A New & Young Salesperson

47:30 - Thank You 

49:19 - Where Can People Find You to Connect?

49:48 - What I Meant to Say Closing

Links & Where to Find Jake

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jakestahl

www.jakestahlconsulting.com