What I Meant to Say

Optimized Parenting with Jim White

Episode Summary

Jim White has a lifetime of experience with relationships and parenting so it was a joy to connect with him about how to connect with teenagers for more fulfilling relationships and to help them create strides toward their greatness.

Episode Notes

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Key Points, Top Takeaways and Memorable Quotes - 

“One of the things I encourage parents to do is to model the good behavior.” 

4:59

“If the parent always rescues them, the underlying message to the child is you can’t do it.” 11:27

“Sometimes the biggest lessons are when things get messy.” 11:52

“One of the principles when you’re loved based is the idea that all people are fundamentally good.” 15:23

“Peace, joy, and purpose.” 19:45

“We see what we look for.” 33:44

“Who or what do I need to forgive in this moment?”  37:12

“What do they need from me right now?” 49:13

“Don’t give unsolicited advice.” 52:09

 

Guest Bio - Jim White is an author, coach and founder of the Family Enrichment Academy.  He has been married for 40 years and has 6 children as well as 13 grandchildren. His background as a family enrichment coach and life experience provide a unique perspective on parenthood and personal development. His 2nd book How to Be the Parent Your Teenager Needs You to Be is available on Amazon.

 

Show Notes - 

0:00 - Coming Up on ‘What I Meant to Say’

0:42 - WIMTS Intro

1:04 - Welcome Jim White

1:28 - Family Enrichment Academy

7:10 - What Made You so Passionate About These Principles for Your Family?

9:25 - Letting Go of Control to Build Resiliency & Resourcefulness

14:55 - Loved Based Mindset

16:32 - Conversations Build Connection at the Dinner Table

19:15 - Empowering Your Teenager to Be Their Absolute Best

24:35 - Parenting Fundamentals in An Ever Changing World

29:00 - Healthy Ways for Parents to Share Their Experience with Children

34:05 - Perspective: Respond or React?

37:50 - Family Habits, Rituals, and Traditions

41:15 - Reframing the Concept of Shame

46:33 - The Importance of Presence & Connection with Your Kids

52:38 - One Piece of Advice to Your Younger Self

59:02 - Thank You

59:36 - WIMTS Closing

 

Links & Where to Find Jim - 

www. familyenrichmentacademy.com

IG - @familyenrichmentacademy     

Youtube - @familyenrichmentacademy5783